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Stalk This! is the personal blog for Ron Miles. It's where I talk about pretty much anything NOT related to software development - autism, Disney, Doctor Who, particle physics, whatever. My technical blog can be found over at Lokheed Enterprises. Thanks for stopping by!

By Ron Miles on 7/21/2014 8:26 PM

As you may possibly have noticed, I have radically updated the look and feel of I hope you like it! My primary motivation was the fact that previously the site did not render well at all on mobile devices. With this new, fully responsive design the site now looks great on any size screen.

For Phase 2 I will be updating the blog software, as well as the look and feel of the blog itself. I don't know how long that will take. I am working with a copy of the website to work through all of the templating, and it may take a while.

Anyway, I hope you like the new look and feel. Drop me a comment and let me know what you think!

By Ron Miles on 7/14/2014 11:55 AM
So much has happened in the last 48 hours, I don’t even know where to begin. Do I go for shock value and start with Ben and me walking into the emergency room at midnight, both covered in vomit? Do I go for a sweet and comedic tone, with Ben taking a hot bath earlier that evening and demanding to be left alone in the bath with the lights out and a single candle for illumination while listening to Enya? Or do I start with a moment of raw terror, with Ben fighting a 102.5 degree fever and shivering so violently that the entire bed trembled beneath him? The truth is that these last two days are a jumble inside my brain, a nearly incoherent mixture of fear and resolve punctuated by moments of nearly sublime comedy. If you had asked me at any point this weekend where I imagined I would be tonight, the answer “sitting by the fire pit at a theme park resort” would never have even crossed my mind, and yet here I am. Literally nothing makes any sense at this point, so I am doing the only thing I know how to do – write my way through it and try to find some kind of coherent plot. It won’t be an easy task.
By Ron Miles on 6/8/2014 5:39 PM

I have a post coming this Wednesday about Ben's first ride on the new Seven Dwarfs Mine Train, but in the meantime here is a video of me performing three songs at an open mike night at Pilars Martini Bar in Winter Garden a couple weeks ago. The first is my acoustic cover of "Wrecking Ball", and then two original songs -- "Western Winds" and "Benjamin's Lullaby (a.k.a. All Is Well)". I hope you like it.


By Ron Miles on 4/23/2014 9:00 AM
Most of the time on this blog I write about my son, but today I wanted to do something different. What I would like to do instead is answer a question that nobody is actually asking, but has been nagging at me lately anyway. Why in the heck to I play guitar and sing in public? The answer is certainly not “because I think I’m awesome.” I consider my skill as a guitar player to be, at best, an advanced beginner. Vocally I think most of the time I am generally okay, occasionally I am reasonably good, and more frequently than I would like I am a train wreck. As for my stage presence and general abilities as a live performer, I am pretty much a rank amateur. So why in the heck do I do it?
By Ron Miles on 4/2/2014 7:44 AM
I suppose you could argue that last Thursday's final surgery marked the end of the eight-month ordeal of Ben's illness, but for me it was Monday morning that truly signified a return to normalcy. As of this week, Benjamin has returned to school full-time and his mother has returned to work full-time.

Ben's procedure last week was a quick one -- less than two hours between arriving at the hospital and going home. The surgery itself was perhaps fifteen minutes, during which the doctor went in endoscopically and removed the stent that had been placed into his bile duct back in February to address ongoing leakage of bilious fluids. During Thursday's procedure the stent came right out, and the doctor said that everything internally looked "beautiful". The small tear that had been the source of the leak has now fully healed, there was no inflammation or other sign of any problems, and he proclaimed that Ben  was in great shape.

We took it easy with Ben over the weekend, since even a "quick, easy" surgery...


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About Shmoolok

The word "shmoolok" is a mashup of the longtime computer handles for my wife and myself ("Shmooby" and "Lokheed", respectively).

I originally created this website to be a place for my family to connect, but it has since grown into something a little different.

As for me -- I am a father, a husband, a son, a software developer, and a writer. On any given day I am not sure how good I am at any of those particular things, but I do try my best.

Thank you for visiting my website.

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